YoggyYog

YoggyYog t1_j75spxe wrote

I use a pair of hair scissors, and snip most of it, to tidy it up. No need to go all the way down to skin, or shave, because they’ll cause you undue stress when it starts growing again, and the terrain isn’t flat enough to get a clean shave! 😂 It just requires patience, and careful use of hands to guide the scissor blades.

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YoggyYog t1_j72w9bf wrote

Unlikely, he probably doesn’t do any maintenance of his behind bush, and doesn’t wipe properly to account for that. Nothing gay about trimming between the crack when it helps keep your sheets clean, and your farts commandingly loud.

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YoggyYog t1_j6ce4jp wrote

Have you considered the possibility that they break up /because/ there is no solution other than the maternal unit taking on the responsibilities the paternal unit avoids. These issues matter, and they’re so prevalent, because there is a big problem with avoidance of responsibility in the household among men.

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YoggyYog t1_j1pe24f wrote

Sounds like an unbearable experience. I think you made the right decision to leave, because it doesn’t sound like anyone was going to give you the basic kindnesses you deserve. Your bf is also an asshole at the very least for getting mad at you instead of being understanding, given the fact his dad is a raging asshole.

I don’t think your bf loves you nearly as much as you do him, and it won’t get better, judging from his behaviour and the expectations his family set up. It’s probably best he becomes your ex, for your own well-being, because these people will only take your love for granted.

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